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Are you Paying the Authenticity tax?

The authenticity tax is the price we pay for intentional living. It's not cheap, but it's absolutely worth it. Read on to learn more!  growthmindset #inspiring #motivation #motivational #personaldevelopment #getoutofyourcomfortzone

It’s 2011 and I’m at a bonfire with friends. I’m about to leave for a 10-month trip and we’re all drinking and eating in honor of my impending travel.

Talk turns to dating-while-traveling. A married friend takes a long swig of his beer and levels his eyes at me across the fire.

“Aren’t you afraid that if you keep traveling you’re not going to meet a nice guy?” he asks loud enough for everyone to hear.

I blush and mumble something unintelligible, but by now I should be used to questions like these.

This not-particularly-polite-question is an example of the authenticity tax. It’s the price we pay for living a life that’s right for us.

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The truth is, anytime you make a choice that’s right for you but runs counter to expectations, you’re going to get pushback. Family members are going to ask you about it at Thanksgiving. Friends might elbow you after a few drinks. Co-workers will look askance. Maybe the neighbors will talk.

These questions and comments are frustrating, condescending, and sometimes downright hurtful. But the truth is, they’re usually par for the course if you’re living your life on purpose.

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True Story: I Have Epilepsy

True Story: I Have Epilepsy

This is one of many True Story interviews in which we talk to people who have experienced interesting/amazing/challenging things.  This is the story of Sonja and her epilepsy diagnosis.Tell us a bit about yourself! My name is Sonja, I'm 30 years old and a life long New Englander (save for a few stints abroad) currently hanging out in Western Massachusetts with my husband, son, and two cats. I'm...

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Mini Travel Guide: Colombia

Mini Travel Guide: Colombia

Looking for a travel guide to Colombia? Wondering is it's safe to travel there ... and if it is, where you should go? Me, too! Thankfully, Carolina is here to share her best Colombia travel tips! There's no one better to give Colombian travel tips than a native Colombian! I was born in Bogota, went to high school there, and visit on a yearly basis to catch-up with family and friends. I can never...

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A step-by-step plan to quit your job, sell your stuff, and travel the world

A step-by-step plan to quit your job, sell your stuff, and travel the world

Have you ever wanted to quit your job and travel the world? On any given Tuesday, I'd imagine 30% of the workforce is having that exact fantasy. But where do you even start with something like that?  Somewhat ridiculously, I've sold my worldly belongings and set out to travel the world five (!) times.  Here's a very basic break down of how you can do the same. A Step-by-Step Plan to Quit Your...

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True Story: I Have A Toxic Relationship With My Mom

True Story: I Have A Toxic Relationship With My Mom

Tell us a bit about yourself. My name is Amy and I’ve lived in Michigan all 27 years of my life. I work as a graphic designer at an ad agency by day. By night and weekends, I can usually be found with my boyfriend remodeling our 100-year-old farm house, photographing anything and everything or just spending time with my friends. What is your relationship like with your mother? My relationship...

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True Story: I Went From Self-Employed to 9-5.  And I Love It!

True Story: I Went From Self-Employed to 9-5. And I Love It!

This is one of many True Story interviews in which we talk to people who have experienced interesting/amazing/challenging things. This is the story of Freya, who left the corporate world, worked for herself and then joyfully returned to an office job.Tell us a bit about yourself! I'm a 27 year old whirlwind of Southern belle jet setter with a few dashes of circus and beatnik thrown in. I've been...

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How To Pare Down Your Closet Without Losing Your Mind

How To Pare Down Your Closet Without Losing Your Mind

Want to pare down your closet but not sure where to start? Are you painfully aware that you don't wear 70% of what you own? You are not alone, my friend! Thankfully, Sally McGraw is here to help us clear out our closets Even if you love to purge your closet, chances are - you also hate it. Clothing is imbued with emotion, steeped in memory, and parting with it can be downright painful. As...

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