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11 stealable habits that support my business + creativity

Trying to build better creative habits? Want to build habits that will support your business? Steal these 11 habits of mine!  #goalsetting #habits #resolutions

The music at First Avenue is eardrum-ruining loud and – like an idiot – I’ve forgotten ear plugs. After a few songs I can’t enjoy because I’m certain I’m going deaf, I push my way towards the bathroom. I’m convinced I can fashion makeshift ear protection from tiny, wadded up pieces of toilet paper.

And it is there, in the bathroom stall at a music venue, that I see a quote that changes the way the way I navigate my professional and creative life:

We are what we do every day, so we might as well make it count. Share on X

I ignore the profanities and graffiti surrounding this gem and stumble back into the music, thinking about this. If I am what I do every day, what things should I be doing every day? What kind of life do I want and what can I do every day to help me get there?

I thought about this, friends. I thought about it for the rest of the concert. I thought about it as I drove home. I thought about it as I lay in bed, squinting at the ceiling.

And then I slowly and systematically started to create habits that support the professional and creative life I want.

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True Story: My Leg Was Amputated

True Story: My Leg Was Amputated

Tell us a bit about yourself! Hello! My name is Ashley and I come from a small town in Kentucky! I'm a southern girl through and through. I grew up in a single-parent household, just me and my mother. She's my best friend and my biggest supporter. I work as an Executive Assistant for a non-profit organization in the equine industry. I love anything outdoors from camping, boating, fishing,...

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Notes From The Road: The Volunteer Diaries

Notes From The Road: The Volunteer Diaries

As you guys may know, one of my secrets to cheap/fullfilling/non-stressful travel is "go some place and then stay there for a while." But what do you doooooo while you're "staying there for a while"? I like to volunteer. Not because I'm a particularly kind or awesome person but because I get bored sitting in my hostel room watching HBO and because I came to India to meet Real! Live! Indians! ......

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Your new clear skin ‘cocktail’

Your new clear skin ‘cocktail’

Wouldn't it be nice if there was a cocktail you could drink for clear skin? Well, there is! Sort of. My beauty editor friend Elizabeth is here to share her best skincare secrets. Today’s recipe comes from my gorgeous friend Christina Holm-Sandok, whose creamy complexion recently began behaving badly. “Worse than during my junior year in high school!” she declares. Oi. At the suggestion of...

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True Story: I Cheated on My Husband

True Story: I Cheated on My Husband

This is one of many True Story interviews in which we talk to people who have experienced interesting/amazing/challenging things. This is the story of Jo, her marriage, and her affair. I imagine that many readers have strong feelings about marriage and fidelity. I really appreciate Jo's candor and her willingness to do this non-anonynmous interview. We're going to keep the comments respectful,...

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Notes From The Road: Love and Dating, Indian Style

Notes From The Road: Love and Dating, Indian Style

Have I told you guys where I'm staying while I'm in Bangalore volunteering? Why, I'm staying at a dorm for unmarried Indian woman. Obviously.I'm quietly thrilled to have escaped the clutches of backpacker hostels and to be spending this month hanging out with Real! Live! Indians! After all, I didn't come all this way to trade Lonely Planets with 19-year-old German boys. The dorm is lovely -...

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5 Things You Should Say To Your Partner Today (+ 5 things you shouldn’t)

5 Things You Should Say To Your Partner Today (+ 5 things you shouldn’t)

The Naked Redhead is laugh-out-loud funny on the regular. And that's not a compliment that I throw around lightly! How lucky are we that she wrote this guest post? Having been, shall we say, “around the block” when it comes to relationships, I have learned the words and phrases that can strengthen a relationship and those that can damage individuals beyond repair. 5 things you should say to your...

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